Guys dating girls with kids
Of course, he’s more worried about getting hurt than he is about hurting the woman, but we’ll leave that aside.
The point is that he is, as he pointed out, in a position of scarcity.
Liking her kids isn't the same as raising her kids. You're at the mercy of custody agreements, parent-teacher conferences, skinned knees, stuffy noses, and — buy her wine for this one — lice. Throw everything you know about Sunday Funday out the window.
You might have some really great ideas about how you think she could do things, and you might have some strong ideas about how children should behave. Until the mini people are old enough to get their own cereal and turn on the cartoons, there's no such thing as sleeping in. She probably doesn't need saving, but she definitely needs a massage.
It seems likely that women who list exactly how many children they want on are pretty set on their preferences too.
I don’t want to date someone, grow attached to her and then feel hurt when the parenthood issue sends us off on our separate ways.
Maybe women who may have listed a less than accurate preference about having children to not scare people away?A Jewish rocker with dreadlocks who wants to be with a Jewish woman. You can probably add other things to this list, including overweight women, older women, short men, and poor men.These are not choices, but they are groups that face longer odds because they don’t fit into many people’s preferences. The Jewish rocker could cut his hair to appeal to his demographic.Simple exercise: Ask yourself what percent of people are ALSO (hardcore bikers, jobless backpackers, Buddhists who don’t believe in possessions)?
Expecting your partner to share your rare passion cuts your dating pool by 99%.The option of least risk would be to filter my searches to only return profiles of women who are sure they don’t want to be parents.